Monday, June 1, 2009

Summer and complications

I love this picture of me and my kiddos. It was taken at the state park. I love having picnics and hanging on at the beachhead. They play in the sand, and water for hours, and just love it. Now summer is here, and I hope we can do this more.

But there's a catch. Nathan has to be in extended school year, and I have him in a program to help his social skills. These are two things he really needs, but it seems to kill summer. Tues- Thurs is chopped, so only a bit of afternoon is left, and now Mondays and Fridays will be gone too. It makes these favorite summer season times we enjoy much more rare, and, of course, special too.

I switch back and forth, wondering if the sacrifice is too big, or if the help is worth losing what we do, or what I do. I know we'll still get to the park, and have our times, but the struggle to pick the best path as a parent can be daunting.

1 comment:

Linda Christman said...

I can understand your dilemma. With an adult child who has autism, we are still much involved in our son's life, more than normal for a 23 year old. Somehow, everything seems to work itself out despite all the growing pains. Enjoy the surprises along the way!

Linda C. :)